Repeat Offenders On AdultWork

There are guys on AdultWork and elsewhere who like to harass women.

Two repeat offenders come to mind. The first one changes his user name often (his legal name is known, apparently) and will send you carefully worded messages because he thinks he can’t get into trouble that way. He will contact you politely at first, but if you don’t get back to him or comply with what he is looking for, he will reveal his true weirdo self.

One of his party tricks is to write in the AW message title: “LMFAO SIMON HAS FUCKED YOU”. And “SUSSED”, and, “CLEARLY A TOTAL TIMEWASTER. BLACKLISTED”. Etc, etc. There is often nothing in the actual message itself.

You can see why he gets refused even before it gets to this stage – there are little clues in his original message that raises alarm bells which is why he gets ignored.

It is known that one time he sent a blank message on AdultWork with just “Good session babe….PMSL” in the title. The aim is to make you feel vulnerable in that he tricked you by passing your vetting process.

These cretins don’t understand the law. Anything that makes you feel alarmed or distressed is illegal, and these communications can make you feel that way because of the nature of the sex work industry. The police have enough on their plates, but if you are on the receiving end of anything that is causing you to feel nervous and intimidated, you are within your rights to contact them – or National Ugly Mugs who will know how to help you and have vast experience when it comes to dangerous losers.

So that you have evidence that you are being contacted against your wishes, you can reply asking them not to contact you again.

After the “Good session babe, PMSL” message by this particular individual, the escort in question replied:

“No (his AW name), you never fucked me and why you keep harassing sex workers with different user names on AW thinking you are covering your tracks just shows how thick you are. There are laws to protect women from men like you. It starts with me telling you to stop contacting me. If you continue to do so, I will report you. Got it?”

He got the message.

There’s also another idiot that’s been doing the rounds for years who gets offended if you don’t reply straight away. This one will try and get you to confirm a booking on AW and then if you do, he will demand photos and threaten to give you a bad review (and worse) if you don’t.

NOTE: Never confirm a booking until after it has ended because then he can threaten to leave you a bad review if you don’t send him nude photos of yourself. His MO is to get you to confirm the booking and then even before you have met the cretin, he is telling you to send him nude or facial photos and gets nasty if you refuse.

We know of one woman (and there must be more) who turned up on his street – she didn’t have his full address and when she text to ask for it, he replied that he wanted a face photo of the woman.

This twats name is also apparently known.

Look out for them.