The most important thing with car meets, is not to have them in totally secluded areas. Because even if you take other safety measures such as texting a friend his car registration number – if you are out in the middle of nowhere, a lot can happen before anyone will realise you’re in trouble.

Choose somewhere like a large car park, say, a hotel or a retail car park or large supermarket where all the shoppers have parked near the venue leaving the furthest spaces quiet for you. You can scout a couple of places out before. Look out for CCTV – which can be good and bad – you don’t want a camera right by your car, but a camera further away can act as another protector, catching evidence if anything goes wrong.

For obvious reasons, it’s much easier to just offer hand relief and oral when doing car meets. Basically, if anyone does drive up and park next to you, you can easily stop what you’re doing, whereas if you’re having full blown sex, not so much.

NEVER go to a place the punter has chosen. You don’t want a surprise party waiting for you when you get there.

Car meets are a sort of outcall and as with outcalls, you (hopefully) wouldn’t give some twat the satisfaction of sending you on a wild goose chase, which is why you ask for proof of address; it shouldn’t be an issue for him to do that because he has to give the information anyway so that you can visit him. You don’t necessarily need his full name for an outcall to his place.

There are also serial timewasters when it comes to car meets. You can decide if you want to take your chances that he shows up, or, when he contacts you, tell him to send over a photo of his car registration number. However, some guys are sneaky and will send any old photo of a car they have found online. To combat this, ask him to place an object within the photograph such as his watch on the front left corner of the bonnet, or something else such as his wallet by the number plate.

Always respect the guys’ privacy afterwards and get rid of all information you have taken.

If you are taking your chances that he will show up at the semi-secluded spot YOU have chosen, when you get there, ask him if you can just text his car registration number over to your friend who is waiting for you in the cafe over the road.

As an extra precaution, ask that his car keys are placed at the front of the car, by the tyre or something. This is incase he decides to drive off with you in the car.

Worst case scenario; you turn up and get in a car and he pulls a knife on you and says if you scream, he will stab you. His intention is to drive off with you. Try NOT to comply, because if he can do that, once he has you away somewhere totally secluded, it’s all downhill from there. Plus he’ll get done for kidnap which is a serious offence so what has he got to lose by being aggressive with you.

This is why it’s a good idea to take his keys and place them at the front of the car. You could also just leave the passenger door slightly open so he can’t lock it from his side.

If you don’t want him to see your car, consider that when you are out and about scouting car meet locations. You could park up somewhere and walk to a specific location at the back of the car park and tell him to look out for you.

Or if you don’t mind him seeing your car, you could get him to come to yours instead.

Car meets, if done safely, can be a handy way to work. You go out as the work comes in, there’s no hotel or apartment to pay for, and if you venture out slightly, you could buy or hire a larger vehicle and get in the back.

Additional Tips

Agree services by text beforehand so you have evidence if anything goes wrong.

Take something to wash his nethers with such as a wet flannel in a bag.

Get the money up front, obviously.

As with any other booking, have a time limit.

If you’re really nervous the first time that you agree to a car meet, maybe just give it a try. It’s like most things; once it’s done, the next time is so much easier.

Try and have fun. There are some great guys out there. Look after them and hopefully they will book you again! If they do book you again, do follow your usual safety measures!