The guys who visit sex workers can vary from psychopathic incel types to really lovely men that you’d want to see again. If you haven’t been in the business you’ll probably be surprised at the type of men who do this. One of us here had a personal relationship with a guy who was originally her punter and who was a policeman. We have seen doctors, judges, lorry drivers, solicitors, semi-professional sportsmen, factory workers, dentists, retired guys, bankers and men in every other profession under the sun.

We have met some great lorry drivers and factory workers but in our experience, the professional and educated guys are usually the best (although the richer they are, the kinkier they can be for some reason). These guys usually have a lot of money and aren’t forking out a days’ wages on you so therefore don’t expect the earth as in wanting to overstay and asking for things not already agreed on and which you don’t do.

Here Are Some Things To Watch Out For When Vetting A Client

Look out for the ones that send you long messages or emails. It’s usually a cut and paste sent out to several sex workers in the hope that one will take the bait and the sender can get into a back and forth with you whilst rarely making an actual booking. Anyway, you want them to call you so that you can check to see if they have any reports on Client Eye.

When they call you and don’t even know your rates.

Short texts such as:

You working?
Hi sweetie
Hey sexy
Wow you look gorgeous
How much do you charge?
What services do you offer?
Hello
? (the question mark of death)
Etc.

Guys who haven’t met you asking to be a regular. These are usually timewasters who think this is sex worker sweet talk.

Asking if you WhatsApp.

Asking for more photos.

The ones that do the above usually don’t have the money and are hoping for a crafty wank.

Sounding over the top cheerful on the phone. These can be genuine but they are often just looking to chat and/or get more out of you if they do visit.

Sounding as if they are in some sort of street gang. Watch these ones especially.

Punters who want to book you for over two hours or so. Might be genuine but is often a way to get into a back and forth with you without actually amounting to anything.

Look out for the guys who contact you wanting to take photos for your profile. They pretend they are doing you a favour but are offering so that they can get a free look. We also wouldn’t trust them with the photos they take.

Genuine customers know how much you charge and what services you offer (that is, if you advertise a “Like” list).

They don’t want a long conversation – they are usually too busy with work. They call or text you asking if you have any time available at such and such a time. And that’s it. They might want to confirm your prices and your services but they have taken the time to look.